His Needs and Her Needs are Different

In his book, His Needs, Her Needs, author, Willard F. Harley Jr. identified 10 different emotional needs that are important in marriage. Typically husbands and wives prioritize these needs differently. It is valuable to understand and be understood by our spouse. Ask your spouse to identify and rank which of these 10 emotional needs would be in their top 5

  • Admiration
  • Affection
  • Sex
  • Conversation
  • Family support
  • Financial security
  • Honesty
  • Help around the house
  • Recreation
  • Maintaining your physical attractiveness

Ask your spouse how you can better meet their needs in their top 5 areas.