Are you spending most of your time in the sweet spot? A marriage has momentum in the direction of the sweet spot or the sour patch. If you have drifted out of your sweet spot, try to find something silly or fun to do together. Rent one of your favorite comedies to watch together; have a water gun fight, play cards or a board game together; go to the greeting card section of a store and see who can find the funniest card. Fun doesn’t have to cost a lot of money, just be creative. Fun is the litmus test of a good relationship.