After a couple has been married for a number of years, it is not uncommon that they are drawn apart do to different areas of interest. She gets involved in mommy activities. He golfs with his buddies on the weekend. The time they used to so easily spend doing activities TOGETHER when they were dating has all but disappeared. If this describes you and your spouse, then talk together about a hobby or activity you can begin doing together. Each of you should make a list of 5 things you would enjoy doing together. You can each veto two on the other person’s list. Then with the remaining ideas, choose one or two you will start making time to do together. Enjoy!